Which whip or flogger should I start with as a beginner?

I recommend everyone to have a flogger, whether you are a beginner or an experienced BDSM practitioner.

A flogger is a whip with a handle and several tails (also called strings). It is easy to use, suitable for both beginners and experienced users, and can be used for both soft sensual touching and more intense spanking.

Floggers work both as an extra spice during sex and BDSM sessions.

Why is a flogger good for beginners?

• Easy to handle.


• From soft caresses to hard raps - you control the intensity.

Have you seen Fifty Shades of Grey?

Are you curious about what it feels like to have a red butt or a slightly harder grip? Do you want a sex toy that will enhance your sex life or try getting flogged? Then you've come to the right place.

Are you experienced and living a life of BDSM and used to harder raping or long sessions filled with pain? Are you looking for a handmade flogger with that little something extra? Then you've come to the right place.

How do I choose the right flogger?

A flogger can vary in:

• Number of tails


• Weight


• Material


• Sting and feeling

A flogger is a type of whip with different numbers of tails, and is easy to use. You can easily hit the butt, you can do sensual whipping on the back and chest. You can give a harder rap, you can hit with the top of the tails so the hit is like a slap.

If you have the opportunity – please come by our showroom in Huddinge, Stockholm. There you can feel different materials and get help finding the right flogger for you.

As a whip maker, I try to write as clearly as possible on each flogger, what material it is made of, how it will feel on the body, and whether it is suitable for beginners or more advanced use.

Tips for beginners

• Choose a flogger that is not too heavy.


• Avoid tails that are too hard or sharp – they can cause a stinging sensation.


• Choose a flogger with many, soft tails that provide a sensual and pleasant experience.

Ready to take the next step?

Do you already have a soft flogger?

Then you can try one with more sting - for a slightly harder feeling that goes deep and gives you the opportunity to give a slightly harder rap or a flogger that really goes deep - so-called deep impact.

Exploring different materials is also a way to bring out a different feeling.

Which material should I choose?

• Cowhide - of varying softness and hardness.


• Buffalo leather - heavier and deeper feel.


• Vegan alternatives - such as rubber and paracord, these give a different feel, often a little sharper.

What is Florentine flogging?

Have you ever seen someone use two floggers at the same time in a coordinated, fluid motion that lands rhythmic blows on their target? Then you've probably seen what's commonly known as Florentine flogging.

This is when you use 2 floggers at the same time in a rhythmic pattern (e.g. 4-point or 6-point).

You can find guides on YouTube, or book a private lesson with us to learn the basics.

If you are interested in Florentine flogging, it is important that you buy a pair of floggers. As a whip maker, you make a pair at the same time so that they are as similar to each other as possible in weight and balance.

What is BDSM?

BDSM is an acronym for bondage, discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism, and encompasses a range of sexual practices and kinks. It can include various forms of power exchange, physical restraint, pain, and other sexual activities. A fundamental principle is that everything happens in a safe and consensual manner, so that everyone involved feels safe and comfortable.

BDSM often involves the roles of dominant and submissive. The dominant takes the lead and directs the situation, while the submissive voluntarily surrenders control. This may involve the dominant giving orders, handing out punishments or rewards, or the submissive performing specific tasks at the dominant's request.

The possibilities you can whip/hit with a flogger are endless and together with a partner you can experience a lot of pleasure.

If you have any questions about floggers, materials, feel or technology - give me a call (070-409 88 00).

I'd be happy to help you.

Hugs, fia